Most of the work that comes to me is essentially an energetic attachment or an interference of some kind.
I will show you where attachments commonly occur, what they feel like, how to discern if it’s your energy or someone/something else’s, how to help yourself, and what it feels like to have really solid energy.
Your Energetic Layers – Your Auric Field
When you are compromised with an energetic attachment, it happens on one of four levels, and sometimes across levels.
- Physical Layer – sudden physical discomfort. I’d also look at chronic physical discomfort.
- Mental Layer – Fear, personality shifts, unusual anxiety, toxic thought cycles.
- Emotional Layer – Feeling uptight, mood swings, depression, feeling low but you don’t know why.
- Spiritual Layer – Disconnected from Spirit, or straight up delusional.
Of course, these aren’t exclusive to having an attachment and your egoic-Self has the capacity to be a major interference as well.
As we look at each energy center, understand that there are physical sides where you can experience attachments as well. They are front side, left, side, backside, and right side. I can’t say where is the most common side of attachment is overall but in my experience, the back and the left side are prevalent but aren’t exclusive.
The reason is that the back side of our energy is connected to allowing, receiving, input and being. The left side is our feminine energy side which is receptive, fluid, empathic, emotional and flexible. There is nothing wrong with this, it is the byproduct of living in an over-masculinized world where output and production are honored over the more subtle energies so we don’t pay attention to the subtle energies.
Your Main Energy Centers
I’m only going to address the main energy centers in your body because it is completely feasible to be autonomous in your energetic field without going overboard with worry about your minor energy centers and the energy associated with your other body systems.
These are some of the common associations or symptoms of energetic attachments or interferences in your field:
- Crown – Disconnection, Confusion
- Third Eye – Excessive Thought Cycles, Psychic Noise ( this could be audible, visual, sensory, cognizance)
- Throat – No Voice, Tongue-tied, Stuttering or Stumbling over your words
- Heart – Selfish, Needy
- Solar Plexus – Drained, Dependent
- Sacral – Boundary Issues
- Root – Irrational Fear, Insecure Feelings
These aren’t exclusive to energetic attachments but with awareness and knowing yourself, these are very clear indicators that you’ve picked up an energetic hitchhiker.
The Auric Field Layers and Energy Centers
Each energy center can experience interferences on each layer of the auric field. As an example, we will look at the Heart energy of selfish or needy. This can be experienced in relation to the physical, mental, emotional or spiritual layer of your field. So if you are experiencing being needy, does it feel like any of the examples in the energetic layers above? Is it a physical feeling or yearning? Does it make you have an endless loop of mental gobbly-gook floating through your thoughts? Does that feeling of being needy make you anxious or depressed? Do you feel disconnected from Spirit and you are looking for a connection from somewhere else?
That is an example of how to explore interferences in the energy centers and the auric field.
Together your auric field and your energy centers are your energetic web of sovereignty.
The Most Common Energetic Interferences
In my work of energetic testing, women as a gender are more prone to having energetic attachments. This isn’t to say that men don’t have them as well. There is a clear correlation with how girls and women are conditioned in the patriarchal society and how women experience energy.
Gaslighting and Conditioning
Essentially, we gaslight girls and women continually from cradle to grave, instilling doubt in their innate knowing and autonomy as to be in service to society on every level. This happens through grooming from a young age. Do you think girls choose pink and dolls? No, they are chosen for them. Everything girls and women experience teaches them that their decisions are wrong on one level or another. They are too this, too that, not enough this or that; it is everywhere and unending.
When we have strong girls they need to be taken down a peg and strong women are bitches. And we certainly don’t seem to be playing along when women decide they rather congregate than compete with each other. This goes against the divide and control to keep women compliant. The male version of the perfect woman is skinny, big boobs, can kick ass and carries an assault rifle, basically Sarah Connor or Lara Croft. I know absolutely no women that embody that energy outside of women that have been conditioned to pander to the male fantasy.
There is a continual grooming and gaslighting of the female gender and it leaves women open to being controlled, energetically sucked dry, and then tossed aside because by that time they are old crones (like aging is a violation of the patriarchal contract). This is why gaslighting itself is a giant energetic attachment and interference, and it can present at multiple energy centers and on multiple layers of the auric field.
And, of course, you can have non-beneficial entity attachment or interference but in my experience, the unseen entities are most commonly attached to another human being and either have a specific agenda for that person or are completely opportunistic in their mayhem.
How to Help Yourself
Yes, we are talking about Boundaries now.
- Own your body – you live in it; it is yours. Love it, take complete ownership. Know how to put vocabulary to the sensations it feels especially the mental and emotional ones.
- Watch your back – this is backside awareness. what I mean by this is be mindful of that area of your energy that is associated with allowing, receiving, being, noticing and surrendering; your input energy.
- Know what’s yours and what isn’t – most people have messy boundaries and many times on purpose. I’m sure you know what it feels like to deal with volatile people, needy people, people that endlessly complain or find fault with everything or go to you because they need something. You can walk away from that energy.
Do you feel depleted after being around someone that has poor boundaries?
- This isn’t about building a wall around ourselves. If you need to work with a visual boundary in your mind’s eye, visualize a mesh barrier instead of a wall around you. Your good, loving, shining Being can beam out but nobody else’s crap is getting in.
The Embodiment Code
The Embodiment Code is you taking ownership over Yourself. What that means is moving through your everyday life with a high level of discernment and confidence; discernment being the keyword here. Discernment is an energetic muscle, and it takes time to strengthen. It is how you see subtle energy. We are taught through modern science that if they can’t prove it, it doesn’t exist which we know is utter rubbish because the flip side of that is religions that condition us to have complete, unverified faith in the teachings of whatever specific religion.
So which is it? Prove it or have faith because someone else says we have to have faith to be accepted or approved of?
This is why I believe in cultivating the Discernment muscle. Real truth is in subtle energy; that knowing, perceiving, seeing-way we garner information that makes the little hairs on our bodies stand up.
How Ownership Feels in Your Body
We are going to look at your main energy centers again because this is where your power is. I teach (mostly) women to identify how it feels to be in their optimal energy, their home frequency.
You see, when we take ownership of our soul home, our bodies, it is very difficult for outside interferences to attach or penetrate our energy. This isn’t about being a hardened bitch but about being very clear with your outside world that what is their’s is their’s and it isn’t yours. It is not your obligation to take on anything you do not want to take on, and even then ask yourself, do you feel obligated? That obligation is the conditioning of You and that is an energetic interference.
The main feelings in your body and field for Energetic Sovereignty
- Crown – Awareness
- Third Eye – Innate Wisdom
- Throat – Decisive
- Heart – Centered
- Solar Plexus – Sovereign, Autonomous
- Sacral – Boundaries
- Root – Grounded
Can you identify with how these feel? Do you know how it feels to be centered in your body and energy? Or grounded?
Write these down. These are the keys to your energetic sovereignty which is how you deflect energetic attachments and interferences.
As you can see, it isn’t difficult to identify common energetic attachments, where and how they occur, what they feel like, how to discern if it’s your energy or someone/something else’s, how to help yourself, and what it feels like to have really solid energy. All it takes is persistence in growing new energetic muscles.