That intuitive sense you have, it’s normal. What you do with it, is choice.
When we really start to discover that we have intuitive gifts, and we all have access to those same unseen gifts and skills, we tend to be energetic violators.
What is an Energetic Violator?
An energetic violator is someone who’s energy projects forward at any of their energy centers scanning for information (physical, mental, emotional, or spiritual information). They’ve got their feelers out using another’s energy field to juice their sense of connection and specialness.
Think of the energetic or psychic version of your Aunt Ethel. Nosy.
It’s not as simple as someone saying they sense we are struggling or in chaos. It’s a fine line to have someone notice when we are out of sorts and that’s great. I’m not talking about one of our people specifically caring about our well-being.
It’s when someone knows they can sense, perceive, or read other people’s energy field, and then do so without invitation. It’s like someone coming over and opening your underwear drawer to check things out.
It’s none of their business and this is a violation of someone’s energetic privacy and boundaries. This is a person with energetic skills acting from ego.
Empaths
It’s common for empaths to be energetic violators. They have porous boundaries and don’t have control over their empathic muscles. They struggle to cope in the world, tend to ignore their shadow aspects as if they are evil and bad, and many empaths have mastered the craft of spiritual bypassing because they don’t know how to manage their energy field.
This is how I keep from being an energetic violator
I actively ignore what isn’t my business.
Please read that again.
I actively ignore what isn’t my business.
I only use my skills with my people, my inner circle, and with clients. I don’t allow my energy centers to project forward out there feeling for what I can pick up.
This means that even though I know things are going on and can perceive other people’s energetic field (with accuracy), I don’t do it.
What happens when I’m not minding my business
This is what it looks like when I’m not minding my energetic business.
I subconsciously pick up on what’s going on with someone without being told the situation or circumstances. I see a gap between the energy facade they are portraying and can read the chaos going on underneath. Women, I’m looking at you here, just be real.
Then I start wondering and reading the energy because I’m curious, or even a little nosy. Not. My. Business.
And, it’s violating being on the receiving end of someone attempting to read you or get information out of you.
I don’t do this because I know how it feels and it is an ethical violation for any kind of energy practitioner to not keep their shit to themselves.
If you are practicing any of the energetic arts including counseling or coaching, it is your ethical duty to the Craft to keep your energetic chaos to yourself.
Do you struggle with your empathy?
Are there areas of your life wherein you feel like you are suffering?
Do you avoid media because you can’t cope with what is going on in the world?
Feel free to book in for a chat to determine if I’m the right one to assist you with this.
